When we started our relationship a year and a half ago we were having a lot of sex ( and I really mean a lot ) we would have sex several times a day and different days ( 10 days at least a month , we don’t live together ) But then we started having more and more fights and we started having less I guess? For me the fighting doesn’t turn me off at all , but for him I guess it does. I have tried to speak to him about it and I asked him about why he wasn’t being as much sexually active as before , he got pretty angry and told me that all I wanted to do was have sex. I do want to have sex all the time but not in a weird way , I am just attracted to him but ofc I want to do other things. Now if we do have sex , it happens two days a month and one time each day maybe? And when we do it , I don’t even come , so I am not satisfied.
I want to talk to him about this but he just gets angry so I don’t know how to speak to him about it or what’s going on with him.
UPDATE : Because it doesn’t let me post anymore , I actually have been posting since yesterday about my problems with intimacy lately. It has been a long time since it happened, but we had sex a few minutes ago , there was some stuff that I thought he didn’t like or that maybe he didn’t desire me as much ( many comments said he was cheating on me or that sex wouldn’t come back until making up about the fighting ) It has been so fulfilling and he has actually done everything that I thought he didn’t desire ( touching my boobs , touching me or even eating me out ) it has really satisfied me. I will listen to the advice that many helpful users gave me. I would also appreciate if someone could help me to understand if it’s possible to orgasm only with penetration because I would love to try ( please helpful advice )