I went on a date with a girl off Bumble recently and it went really well, so I gave her my number and we started texting each other. A few days ago I mentioned that I was going to see Marty Supreme at the theatre, and she asked if she could join me, so I said yes. We meet up, talked for a bit, and watched the movie. Up until this point everything seemed to be normal.

When the movie ended she asked if I liked it, so I answered truthfully and said that I really liked it. She seemed a bit surprised by this and said that she disliked the movie. I asked if she wanted to go anywhere else while we were out and she said no so I walked her back to her car. On the way, she said she didnt think things were going to work out, and that we should just be friends. I told her that was fine and things seemed to be cordial until we reached her car.

That night she sent me a few very confusing texts. She apologized for "overreacting" but told me that she thought the movie was "really disgusting." She then said she wanted to give things another chance, and that she wanted to see another movie tomorrow. The weird thing is that she had already told me earlier that she would be out of town the entire next day, so I have no idea what this meant. At this point I was pretty confused so I just told her to keep me posted.

The next day I wanted to clarify what exactly was going on, and if we were still dating, and she eventually responded that she didnt want to see me again, because I had "pushed some hard boundaries" and because the movie had given her nightmares. At this point, I just felt kind of baffled. The movie has some sex and violence in it, it was by no means anything that I would expect to shock someone our age, and she had never mentioned before hand that there would be anything she would be uncomfortable seeing. I cant really think of anything else that I had done that day that would have made her so uncomfortable, but I also find it hard to image that someone would get this bothered by a movie.


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