My boyfriend and I have been having problems in bed for a while and we are not sexually active anymore ( already have a thread about this ) And I have been getting insecure with many things related to this issue. Even though we are not having sex because we have been fighting for months , when we did have sex there were some things that I wasn’t satisfied with.
1- At first he wanted to have sex all the time and then he just stopped wanting it?? Now I am the one with the high sex drive and it seems like I am desperate for him , but I just want to be intimate with him all the time and also do other stuff. Now with the fighting I get that we don’t have sex , but when we were okay he just stopped wanting it sometimes.
2- He just doesn’t like my tits or so it seems. I have a big chest so I feel insecure sometimes while we are having sex , because I don’t really know how I look like. He doesn’t touch them or kiss them , even look at them , I don’t even have to mention that he doesn’t let me do anything to him with them ( if you know what I mean )
3- He also does not give me head. I asked him and asked him to do it , it just doesn’t happen. I gave him head all the time but he never gave me head to me. I asked him if he didn’t like it or if I smelled bad , but he just says that it seems like I don’t enjoy it so he doesn’t do it.
4- He also never touched me and I have to constantly ask him to do it , I can’t come with penetration I guess. Because of that , I ask him to touch me and he just doesn’t do it , he doesn’t even explain to me why not.
My hygiene couldn’t be the issue , because I have a pretty good hygiene. Even if I feel insecure about some parts of my body , I know I have a good body ( I also believe that anything I do , he enjoys it , because he can come instantly when I am riding him ) So I don’t know what the problem could have been then , obviously recently we have not been intimate because of our fights , but I can’t help but wonder if back then ( months ago ) there was also a problem.