Just a little grumble!

"Jesus' greatest miracle was still having 12 close friends in his 30s"

I've always felt that one of my strengths is being able to form and maintain deep friendships, and very much assumed I'd be the exception to the rule above. Yet right on schedule, with a couple of months until I turn 30, I've increasingly found that my friendships are starting to drop away!

I'm increasingly finding over the past six months that "let's meet up texts" to my closest friends don't get a yes, or even a no, but just sit on two grey / blue ticks. They've not recently become parents or anything like that, and I don't think I'm being overbearing, it's often a gap of weeks/months without chatting.

I've made a lot of progress in therapy towards believing that people genuinely enjoy my company, but this is making me feel miserable and full of self-doubt. Anyone relate?


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