So this is something my wife does all the time:
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Tells me she is going to do something
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Does it
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Gets mad because she had to do it.
Examples: Im gonna pick up the kids, then is mad because she had to go pick them up.
I honestly dont know WHEN she is asking for me to do it or when its just info. If Im gonna do something, I just do. If I need help, I just ask her.
sigh…