Me and my wife know each other's password on our phones and never had an issue with going on the others phone. I like to go on hers from time to time because she's got a different fyp and I want something different one day.
Noticed her Instagram was in her hidden folder which got my spider senses tingling so I scooped around to find anything suspicious without asking her. If she was up to no good then I want proof before I accuse.
Didn't find anything on instragram. I know theres ways to hide things and delete this and that but its just weird for now. So I scooped around other platforms too, didnt find anything weird untill I went on her reddit account. Turns out her recent 3 subreddits are hookups on the area like [insert city] hookups and other stuff like [insert city] after dark.
Looked around properly and she has no activity on her messages or posts. So assuming everything isn't deleted and hidden well, it could just be curiosity? Would make sense not to tell me incase she thinks ill freak out but it would still be divorced worthy if it wasn't curiousity and just a fear of attempt. I don't want to be with someone who would cheat on me and especially not someone who would cheat on me but is too scared to do it. That would just be an added lame stat.
Any thoughts? Am I missing anything? Is it a red flag? Where should I look next?? Idk