So I am here. We are together for 9 years, one kid. One of many reason I fall for this guy was that he likes sport, spending time outdoors, mindfull about his body.
Kid changes ofc our live, he got through cancer two years ago, now he is fine, thanks to God. But he somehow along the “kid is here” and “corona” lost his rythm and stopped moving at all.
I try to maintain at least some movement, I try to eat at least 50% healthy. I try to invite him into some sport….nothing works. He goes once a month, destroys himself, so he is sore for next week. He is gaining weight and spending afternoon sitting at couch, beer and some u hleathy sausage on daily bases. He ofc is gaining weight.
At this point, it is not about being fat, but he is nearing very asexual beer belly. It is not the figure that is problem. I just love to sport. It’s not about hitting 10k km or some goal…just move. Run. Kick the ball with kid. Go to gym. Go to swimming pool. To all that he is lazy. Or he don’t want to wake up that soon. Or this trainer is bad.
I feel like I am not livng with the same person we shared interest anymore…
Not mentioning that part where eating rubbish in daily basis probably isn’t good for cancer treated body at all.