I (m47) am having a hard time in my marriage with the woman (f40) of my dreams. We've been together for almost 16 years, married for 9,5 and we have two preteen kids. My wife alwayd had problems opening up and comitting to another person 100%. As for me, I lack some basic knowledge on human relationships so I did a lot of stuff wrong, 75% of it not on purpose! After a major breakdown this summer I realized how I actually want to treat this woman of my dreams that she actually is and always has been. Unfortunatelly I also developed a sadness because I don't feel my wife's love in a way that I would need it right now. She does love me, but she is scared of the future, that maybe I could change back to the ahole I was or that her life ends without her being truely happy. Anyways, for months I am sad, can't sleep and feel my mojo fading… Then
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