I matched with this guy on Hinge in June/July, and we chatted for about two weeks before I stopped talking to him because it felt like it wasn't going anywhere. I haven't used dating apps since then. I wished him a happy birthday in late November, and we've been talking regularly since. We even went on a date, which was really good. He was a gentleman, a total green flag, and he looks great—apparently better than anyone I've talked to in the last three years. But, I'm not that attracted to him, and I think I'm holding back because of things that happened to me last year. There wasn't any spark on the date, even though I was surprisingly comfortable and not shy, which is unusual for me. Now he's asking me to be in a relationship, but I'm confused. I've never felt like a guy liked me this much, but I don't feel ready.