My wife has gained weight through the 12 years we have been married. I don’t mind. I love her body and I love how thick her ass is.
But she isn’t happy about her size. Not for health reasons which I think should be the primary reason to want to change but purely for aesthetic reasons.
She wants to lose weight but she doesn’t want to do the work of working out and be more mindful about her eating. Honestly I think it’s more about her not moving much.
She has mentioned different types of treatments to get thinner and the newest is ozempic after a family member was described it. That family member was very obese.
I don’t like it. Mostly because she won’t workout. She will just get thinner and while I will always love her no matter how big or thin she is I don’t want her to just get thin and not workout. Working out is so important the older we get. We are getting closer to 40. I workout 4-5 times a week and count calories.
When I used to be bigger she did sometimes mention how big my stomach is. When I got to thin she would comment that and how she didn’t like it and she now says how much she loves my big arms after I gained weight and how she wants me to get even bigger arms.
I haven’t commented things like that to her but I don’t want her to get too thin. But do I have a right to say that? Is it too mean?