I was talking to this guy I met on a dating app last night and he kind of turned out to be somewhat of a douche. Afterwards, I noticed myself not really caring much if he contacts me again, despite not have other guys to talk to. It feels so good when you feel as though you don’t even wanna touch a guy with a 10-foot pole even if there are no other guys that would give you the time of day. In my 20s, I dated attractive guys that turned out to be major assholes, so now, as a 30-year-old woman, it feels good to know that I have a lot more self-respect to the point that I can walk away or tell a guy that things aren’t working out between us, even if I end up being single for a long period of time after meeting him. I hope to one day find the right guy, but for now, I’m happy with where I’m at and how things are going in my life.