TL;DR I (25F) have been hooking up with a guy (27M) and have noticed he struggles to keep an erection. In the 4-5 times we have hooked up he hasn’t addressed or talked about it
I’ve been with guys before who have struggled slightly but not to this extent and also never been with someone who refuses to address the elephant in the room.
I am not sure how to bring it up, the last time we hooked up he said he was sore and I mentioned we could use toys but that went nowhere and he was kinda shocked I mentioned it and I worry I maybe embarrassed him.
I should note that I have heard a rumour that he possibly uses or has a cocaine problem but I genuinely have no idea if it’s true.
He also doesn’t go down on me and rarely fingers me.
I’d love some advice on how to go about having these conversations without hurting his feelings!