Okay, firstly, my husband (39, m) is sitting next to me and suggested I (37,f) ask this question.
Secondly, I love oral sex, giving and getting. The problem is, I don't like it when one of us is sick. Currently, he's sick. I have – what I know to be a nonsensical phobia of receiving getting or receiving oral sex when he's sick.
My thoughts process is, if he coughs in my vagina or licks me with his diseased tongue (yes I know a common cold is not a disease, but go with me here) I'm going to somehow get sick. Plus, if he coughs in my vagina I sweat I will dry up like the sahara. And if he nuts in my mouth while sick, I'ma catch his cold that way.
Now I need y'all to bare in mind, I legit have OCD and I am petrified of catching a cold (I don't handling being sick well).
So my question is, is it absurd that I can't bring myself to participate in any sexual activities when one of us is sick? With the context provided…