I’m someone who’s very much the first one. I’m getting so tired of only meeting people who are the second. That’s not to say that either is right or wrong. Hell, I wish I could be more chill. But it’s just not how I operate. I just have difficulty understanding how you can really get to know someone when you don’t give them 100% of your dating attention. If you’re someone who’s like me and are in a relationship with someone who’s not, how did you manage to become exclusive with them?