So I (m22) have approached my gf (f21) twice now regarding cuckolding and monogamy. One time we were doing like a kink quiz and she wanted clarification to what that was so I explained it and said some people might find it hot to see their partner have sex. She was kind of in the that’s understandable but I don’t really think that’s for me boat. I have since brought the topic up again saying I was into it and would be interested in her maybe flirting with another guy or anything similar. This got a pretty rough reaction though with her saying no and not really understanding why I would ever want something like that.
I’m not really sure I even want the full blown cuck experience, but I would find it really hot if she did some soft cucking activities. We have recently agreed to make a dating app profile for her, however, she wanted to do that to look at profiles and make fun more than for anything like this.
Also, because I’ve gotten a lot of advice before, this is not a deal breaker for me, I love her a lot, and I’m not going to leave over something that’s a fantasy for me. I just want some advice on how to maybe bring this stuff back up and create a healthy conversation with her about it that doesn’t end in disaster. I would maybe also want to suggest the possibility of shifting the dating app into something like this, but I don’t want to push too hard too quick with that either. What do you think?