Hello everyone,
For the Backstory. My bf and I are together since 7 years. When we are together he is super sweet to me, very caring and Loving. But when we are with people (for example my Family) he tends to be more rough. He is not outright rude or insulting or anything, but he somehow cant socialize in a 'nice' way. If He has a 'problem' with Something, He will communicate it as the thought is leaving His head with Sometimes feels a bit harsh.
I dont mind it If it were Just the two of us, but i kno my Family can me a bit sensitive about the tone. I told him this many Times, but it seems its Just the way He is.
Skip to Last Winter. My sister Had a crush on a Guy for a Long Time. There was A LOT of Drama Last Winter, when Things kinda seemes going Downhill and she partially (and totally irrationally) blamed my mother and me for it. She behaved Like a Teenager, but with Time, Things resolved and she got together with her Sweetheart, they are now together since a bit more thank half a year.
Since then, my sister and her new Bf are super in Love wich is sweet, but even in a social setting they are very touchy, Kissing often (when you have a conversation with them) etc.
That makes me awkward and uncomfortable but i am Not the confrontational Type.
My bf on the other Hand ist not, Yesterday at Christmas Eve, he asked my sister to please Stop with the smootching, as it is too much for him. My bf is also very uncomfortable with the Situation, As He has Not forgotten the Drama a year ago and tried to avoid them both since they are together.
The comment Yesterday and His Overall "Attitude" didnt went by my sister, and there are tensions.
I am looking for advice if i can do sth to improve the Overall Situation and Relationship. Last year before this ordeal happended, he and the now bf of my sister got along really Well. My bf told me He hasnt forgotten the Drama, and that it Had an Impact in how viewed my sister and her bf.
If more Details are needed, i am Happy to provide them.