Soo lately i have been reading some smut….. And let me tell you it got me thinking of all the possibilities that are out there. Im not 100% sure this is the right place to ask this but here we are.
I like the way that doms in books are capable of doing some crazy stuff in the bedroom, yet after that they are so kind and caring. Kinda capable of violence and love and mixing it all up in such sweet ways
And i have been thinking… where do you even find someone like that, someone who actually took time to learn how to do it while still making sure everything is good for everyone involved and even if you find them would they even want you? Also do they do commited relationships in real life or just in books? XD
There are no bdsm dungeons anywhere near my town. (At least not on google xD) And even if there were i dont think i would have the curage to go. There being a place for likeminded people doesn't necessarily mean that everyones top priority there is to make sure everyone is safe and having a good time. It actually sounds like it would attract some potentialy really creepy people.
So what is a girl to do?🤣 Can i just look for some kind of a sign in people that i may encounter in everyday life? Do i just let it be in books and accept it as science fiction? Do i go to therapy? Help🥹