I started talking to the guy 3 weeks ago. We had a date & have been having sex since date #2. Today is going to be my 3rd time going over to his place. We have had sex maybe 7-10 times if I had to guess & I really enjoy going down on him every time but he has never reciprocated. He has talked about going down on me once & told me I can sit on his face or his dick, also once. I should have hopped on since that seems like it was my last & only chance. After the last time we had sex I asked him why he has never gone down on me & if it’s something he doesn’t enjoy. He said he does, he likes to get his face ridden. I asked if that’s the only way he enjoys it, he said no. If he doesn’t go down on me today I’m thinking of telling him that I think we’re incompatible because he doesn’t seem to like giving oral sex & it’s a dealbreaker for me. Am I being too harsh? I also don’t like the whole I like my face being ridden, that’s such a passive way to be. I don’t get head unless I’m aggressive about it & force myself on your mouth? He hasn’t had to ask me to go down not once, & to me that makes asking for it from him feel that the sex is one sided. I’m not shaming him for not enjoying eating pussy but I don’t want to sleep with someone who doesn’t enjoy going down as much as I do. I’m starting to feel inadequate like he might not be as attracted to me as I am to him or he thinks I have an ugly vulva or he doesn’t like me & I don’t enjoy having these doubts in my mind. Do you think cutting someone off this quickly for my reason is understandable & valid?