Women who chose to disappoint their parents, how’s life going for you?
December 23, 2025
Women who chose to disappoint their parents, how’s life going for you?
21 comments
Probably great because they chose themselves. Intrinsic validation over extrinsic.
Perfectly peaceful without the shame and guilt of high control religion.
I only disappointed my dad. Life is really good for me. I’m happy.
What kind of question is this? Who chooses to disappoint someone?
Amazingggg
What is this supposed to mean? Nobody chosen to disappoint their parents, but if they make a choice that disappoints their parents like a different route of employment or what have you I’m sure they are doing just fine…
Someone’s hurt
Are you ok?
I am now free- went no contact with my mom.
Rubbish! ☹️ I totally rejected the misogynistic, patriarchal culture that I was born into which meant I was treated accordingly.
I’ve spent my life trying to figure out where I belong, desperately looking to find love and be loved in return, just some sense of being.
Is this an upset parent posting?
Why don’t you go first OP
I left school, went somewhere else to live because of the violence at home. Became an engineer and life is good. I have a decent relationship with my mom and kind of acknowledge the other ones existence, but I also live on another continent just for safe measure
lol is this a hurt parent asking this question?
OP must have something else to say because without context this is an unanswerable question. Most just make choices for themselves and it’s up to the parents to support them or be disappointed. Thats the parents choice not the other way around.
What a stupid question. You sound like a parent whose child isn’t doing what you approve of and now you are posting on here….
I don’t choose to disappoint my parents. They choose to be disappointed.
I’ve disappointed them a bunch, but they have NOOOO room to talk 😂
Well she said that she was disappointed because I was a ” dirty cunt licker” (I’m bi) & then bloodied my nose. I didn’t choose to disappoint her, because being bi isn’t a choice, it’s who I am. She chose to disappoint me by choosing hate and homophobia over her own daughter
Fine, i still have a good relationship with my parents. In the end i disappointed myself way more than i disappointed them (dropped out of high school due to mental health struggles after being top of my class most of my childhood), my dad especially was very chill with it and has always told me life is not a race, and I will find my path when Im ready.
21 comments
Probably great because they chose themselves. Intrinsic validation over extrinsic.
Perfectly peaceful without the shame and guilt of high control religion.
I only disappointed my dad. Life is really good for me. I’m happy.
What kind of question is this? Who chooses to disappoint someone?
Amazingggg
What is this supposed to mean? Nobody chosen to disappoint their parents, but if they make a choice that disappoints their parents like a different route of employment or what have you I’m sure they are doing just fine…
Someone’s hurt
Are you ok?
I am now free- went no contact with my mom.
Rubbish! ☹️ I totally rejected the misogynistic, patriarchal culture that I was born into which meant I was treated accordingly.
I’ve spent my life trying to figure out where I belong, desperately looking to find love and be loved in return, just some sense of being.
Is this an upset parent posting?
Why don’t you go first OP
I left school, went somewhere else to live because of the violence at home. Became an engineer and life is good. I have a decent relationship with my mom and kind of acknowledge the other ones existence, but I also live on another continent just for safe measure
lol is this a hurt parent asking this question?
OP must have something else to say because without context this is an unanswerable question. Most just make choices for themselves and it’s up to the parents to support them or be disappointed. Thats the parents choice not the other way around.
What a stupid question. You sound like a parent whose child isn’t doing what you approve of and now you are posting on here….
I don’t choose to disappoint my parents. They choose to be disappointed.
I’ve disappointed them a bunch, but they have NOOOO room to talk 😂
Well she said that she was disappointed because I was a ” dirty cunt licker” (I’m bi) & then bloodied my nose. I didn’t choose to disappoint her, because being bi isn’t a choice, it’s who I am. She chose to disappoint me by choosing hate and homophobia over her own daughter
Fine, i still have a good relationship with my parents. In the end i disappointed myself way more than i disappointed them (dropped out of high school due to mental health struggles after being top of my class most of my childhood), my dad especially was very chill with it and has always told me life is not a race, and I will find my path when Im ready.
Pretty good, they just gave me $300.