what do i even do?
I (23F) have been with my boyfriend (24M) for a little over year now, he’s in the military so we don’t really see eachother super often, but he’s been home for Christmas and all we’ve done is argue. he’d make me cry and say some really awful things to me, then turn around and buy me things? It’s like this every time we see eachother. Usually we’re fine when we’re apart, but being together we just FIGHT. here’s an example: I know i’m not the cleanest person, but he came into my house and basically yelled at me about how i live in a pigsty and how im disgusting and he doesn’t want to spend the next 60 years with someone as disgusting as me. constantly having an attitude with me like i did anything. idk, i kinda want to leave him. i’m very upset at him. i love him very dearly, but what’s yalls advice on the situation?
TLDR; i want to break up with my boyfriend because we just fight all of the time