I've been living with my (F25) boyfriend (M27) for almost 6 months, we were long distance for about a year prior. During that time, I wanted to be intimate over the phone and it was super rare that we ever were but I was always the one initiating it and I felt so out of place. In my past relationships I never would ask for sex, I would just kinda give the eyes or we would just Know I guess. It's put me in a weird situation because I'm not used to leading or initiating intimacy. I've spoke with him over 3 times since living with each other because we didn't have sex often at all and it's gotten to the point that I'm frustrated with him. I haven't seen much action after having the conversations. Usually he'd initiate after I've spoken to him about it but then days go on into weeks with no sex. I've decided to stop initiating anything to see how far he could go. I've worn cute clothes around the house, would softly touch him in bed, even grind against him and nothing. Even that is still initiating things to me. I don't know what to do at this point. I feel so undesirable. I've asked him if there's a specific reason as to why he doesn't just take me then and there most times and he says because he doesn't want me to feel uncomfortable. I've told him it wouldn't at all because I want that and it's still not clicking to him. I'm at a loss. Has anyone else experienced this? Is there anything else I need to do??
Edit: I knowww 11 days isn't super long, but after a year of long distance and getting a home together and it just being the two of us, and being young and (somewhat) healthy, I would love for us to have sex more often. I've tried having a conversation with him to see what's really going on in his mind about the topic but he just tells me he'll be better and try and yet….nothing. I'm just being a brat about it by seeing how long he can go without and it's after multiple attempts of trying to have conversation!!