I had a bad first date and ended up blocking the guy. He didn’t ask me any questions on the date, kept checking his phone to see if his flatmate messaged about signing a document and just seemed disengaged. He left the date after about 50 minutes to sign a document at his flat.

I asked if he wanted to meet again he said ‘do you want to’. So I had a thought and just decided on blocking him. I’ve never blocked anyone before but I had really weird vibes from him.

I felt really confused and anxious then too scared to reject. I’m neurodivergent and struggle with communication sometimes I get overwhelmed and I’m pretty impulsive.

He has my number (blocked on instagram and WhatsApp) so messaged on iMessage saying ‘real mature.’

Am I bad for doing that?


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