So, for context: I (28,F) went on a first date with a guy a weeks ago. It went well, we talked and he dropped me off at home. It seemed like he wanted to come up, but I shot that down (I don’t do that on the first date). He texted me pretty quickly after, we saw each other a few days later by chance and talked a little more.

A few days ago, he came to my place, we cooked, had sex and talked some more after that. The whole date lasted maybe 7 hours. He texted me the next morning and has texted me every day since, though he’s visiting family in Europe right now, so we haven’t seen each other since (I live in the states).

Here’s the problem: I‘m pretty sure he’s recently single and is moving states in march. His profile also said he’s looking to date casually.
I‘m not really sure what to make of all of this. I can tell I already have a little crush and I don’t know how casual I could be with this guy, I’m pretty scared to get hurt. I really like him and all the texting doesn’t feel that casual to me, but I might be delusional.
Grateful for any advice, insights or tips!


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