Geared more towards guys as I’m one, but am I alone on this?
I (24M) am an avid sex goer. I love every aspect of it and doing it a lot. Currently have a gf (24F) who I plan to marry soon. We usually have deep talks and are super open & honest about everything. Work, family, friends, we’re best friends and I love her so much. Our most recent conversation got to things we DO and DONT like as far as sex goes. I mentioned that oral (myself receiving head) doesn’t do anything for me. She asked why and I simply said it’s just never stimulated me, nor have I ever orgasmed from it. I made sure to tell her that she does it perfectly fine as she can be a bit of an over-thinker and ive had bad head before too so I know she’s not doing a bad job. So she did some deep dive Internet research to see if she could make me orgasm through oral. We tried heat, cold, food, all the above, and nothing worked. They all were cool, but the sensations just don’t do anything for me as penetrative sex with my girlfriend is. She eventually accepted it and I did too, as I will always choose having sex in her vagina over anything else, but it really made me wonder… am I alone ? I hear my guy friends say all the time that amazing head feels amazing, but I can’t ever relate. I never have trouble staying hard when receiving head either, but it never feels as good as being inside of a vagina. I’ve had this feeling ever since I was 18 so it’s nothing new, just a bit strange. Any advice?
(To note, I’m circumcised so I don’t know if that can be a contributing factor, but I never have trouble orgasming through sex so I ruled that out)