(I’m awful at titles, it sounds like the theme of a 2000s pop punk song🤣)
Hi everyone! This is my first positive Reddit post in a long time so I’m sorry if I get a bit excited. So I [m22] met a girl [f21] on hinge a little while ago. A few days ago, she texted me saying her band was playing a town over from where I live and asked me to come. Obviously I was very excited and took my buddy to the gig because I get a bit quiet when I go to places by myself (also to get a second hand perspective of the vibes between us 🤣). It was definitely a great time and I definitely felt really into her. Im also a musician, so something that stuck out to me a lot is we have a very similar state presence, which at least for me was very attractive and comforting. When I brought it up to one of my friends, they said she was “the stereotype of my type” which is definitely true. She’s really pretty, has a unique style, and we like/perform very similar music. With that said, here’s my question: how would I go about us being a little bit father away? She lives in Brooklyn and I’m on the Jersey shore, which distance wise obviously isn’t too far at all, but I’m not too well knowledgeable on possibly consistent travel into the city and she doesn’t drive. Im also not really a city person but I don’t hate it either, just can get overstimulated. I’m not the best at putting my thoughts into words, so I hope someone can decipher this🤣.
Thank you for your help!
TL;DR: I met a girl I really like but she lives in the city and I’m not sure how travel will work, as well as how to sort of get in a groove of going there frequently