Hi guys!
So basically there's this man that I'm speaking to for marriage purposes (we're getting to know each other for an arranged marriage – we would only get married if there's interest from both sides – and we're long distance, he's 1 hour behind me). In the first month and half, he would text me everyday or atleast every other day just to say "hi, how are you?". And then our conversation would drift or would end after I also ask "how are you?". But sometimes we would also do like 1-2 calls a week (he used to initiate this too). During this stage, I would only text him first like once every 2-3 weeks. I'm a very shy person, so initiating the conversation is hard for me. But, everytime he texts, I would always get back to him within the hour (few exceptions where I took longer, but no longer than 3 hours – unless I'm sleeping). Also 8/10, I would keep the conversation going too.
Now, the next month and half, I've noticed that he only texts me like 1-2x/week (he texts first). And whenever I reply, he's still pretty quick to reply and we still have pretty good conversations. I've also been texting first like once a week (I feel more comfortable now, but still kinda nervous so I don't do more). But, we haven't called at all (not even once) during this month and half. I'm too nervous to ask to call, so me initiating that is too nerve-wracking. But, is he slowly losing interest in me? Like is he going to start texting me once every two weeks next? Then once a month? I really do like him, but he seems to be pulling away. But everytime we do talk, he is online, present, and responsive.
Would appreciate it if anyone would like to share their perspectives on what's going through his mind! And is there anything I can do? (I also don't want to seem like I'm chasing him or forcing him to stay with me)