Hey guys,
So my husband and I were sitting on the couch together and he went on Instagram to show me something and this notification of this girl messaging him flashed on the screen. He said it was this girl he games with. Problem is…. Why is she messaging him on Instagram? I asked him that and he said it’s because that’s how they speak to eachother because she has Xbox and he has PlayStation so they can’t talk on the app. So she will see when he goes on Instagram and say “game on”. But I find that weird because if he’s on Instagram doesn’t mean he’s home… he later showed me their chat and it was empty… I told him wait you said you guys chat on here, where is the history? This means it is deleted. He said he didn’t know. Then I went to the restroom and came back after 10 minutes or so because my mind was spinning and the chat was back but I don’t trust it. I’m sure he took the time to delete more things. Also, he iced out his other gamer friend because he told him he was going to tell me that they talk too much together and he should be working on his marriage not talking to another woman. So this is hitting a bit hard. I’m afraid he’s having an emotional affair. He also doesn’t sleep in the room with me anymore. I’m afraid they just talk on Instagram all night and stuff. My mind is spiraling.
What do I do? How do I get to the bottom of this?