I (24f) have been seeing this guy i met on bumble (27m) for about a month now. From our first hangout, we’ve clicked pretty well. Great conversation, the ability to relax in each other’s company, sleepovers at my place even on work nights. He’s affectionate & compliments me often- he calls me interesting, beautiful, talks about how he loves talking to & spending time w/ me. Told me I have the ‘prettiest voice he’s ever heard’. One morning I had to wake up early for work after he spent the night, but he folded my clothes, made my bed. Would send me morning texts. Over time I’ve become more comfortable around him & have been able to share more personal things about myself, probably the most being the fact that I don’t respond to text super well sometimes due to depression, and I’ve brought up my body image a couple times. Anyways, I spent the night at his parents’ house about a week ago while they were out of town.. and I got there late at night but I really wanted to see him. he had work the next morning but said he wanted me to come over anyway. He was once again sweet, talking about how he wants to take me on a date sooner & ‘spoil me’. The next morning was fine, I left when he did, he kissed me & brushed the snow off my car even though he was running late. I had work that day too, but that night I texted him saying it was nice to see him, even for just a little, and asked if he wanted to get lunch with me Sunday (it was Friday morning I saw him, texted him later that day). I didn’t get a response until I texted him again tonight (Thursday night).
I said, ‘Hey, I haven’t heard back and just wanted to check in. If something changed on your end, I’d appreciate knowing’. Then moments later he said ‘Sorry I just saw that you had texted me – I’ve been super busy all week but I’d love to hang out with you this weekend ☺️’. But it’s not really like him to not text me sooner like he used to. I don’t really know if I trust him, even though he’s seemed really sincere. And yes, this is how I realized I’m starting to catch feelings