To keep this short, last night me, my partner and a friend were hanging out together at home. Lots of personal information was being divulged and it ended up on the topic of past crushes. Turns out that my partner has a saved album on their laptop of their past crushes, mind you none of them they have dated. To make this worse, I also know all of these people irl. I explained to them that I am not too happy about this, but I cannot explain why it seems to make me so upset and I am looking for advice.