Hi all, feeling a little lost at what to do or what the answer is to this scenario (if there even is one?)
I have 2 invisible disabilities that you wouldn't know from looking at me, one is that I have quite bad eyesight, I correct this using special contact lens but they are still terrible at night and therefore I don't drive as it would be dangerous – i could learn and drive in the day however at some point if I really wanted but I understand that not driving can put women off, I've tried being upfront with this in the past and also waiting until we go on a date but I'm pretty sure it's the reason I've been ghosted a few times but there's no way to tell as my eyes look normal and I dont wear glasses or anything
The other is I recently got diagnosed with IBD (stomach problems) I've not started treatment yet so i can often be quite tired or just spending a lot of time at the toilet but perhaps with this one I could wait a bit longer before disclosing it?
Any advice would be appreciated, im currently talking with a girl who I can tell really likes me and I really like her but she doesn't know i can't drive yet and I just told her I'm off work as ive been to hospital because of a bad stomach ans worried I would scare her off
Outside of this I have a normal life, have a job, bought a house, have a dog etc and I'm independent and get around myself just I'm late 20s so it's probably assumed I drive