I mean what the title say. We’ve always had intense sexual chemistry but also have a lot of non sexual talks and typically text all through out the day in a healthy way. We are both parents and a lot of it is wholesome stuff. However, he talks about sharing me a lot. At first it was with a girl, I’m bisexual and down, but now he’s talking about sharing me with a guy but he and the guy don’t do anything they both just have me. I really like him but I’m like this doesn’t seem like the behavior of someone who sees me long term, even though he told me he wants a life partner. I know he’s shared he’s hypersexual. But today’s he’s been on one about having me with a guy and for me that’s something I’m only willing to do if you are my boyfriend and I feel safe and know someone. He also is always focused on his pleasure not mine. I should add that he lives an hour and a half away from me in a different state and always makes the effort to drive all the way here to see me and it’s not just for sex. A few days ago he helped me with something around my house that I needed a contractor for and he is one. He puts in effort to see me, talk to me, be there for me but at the same time his hyper fixation with threesomes this early makes me think I’m just an object to him. Please be kind with your thoughts and advice. Thank you.