Girl I I've been texting with for a month is dodging my invite to hang out, but she is sending me messages that seemingly shows she's still interested. Like instead of answering me, she sent me a picture of a doodle she did at work (which is where I asked for her number btw.) We have seen each other in person while she is working, and it's always laughs and smiles.

In the past week the frequency of texting really slowed down from her. She used to initiate, but up until last night, she wasn't initiating for a week (she was busy working) But now she is, sending me a random text at 2am again. Yet still dodging my invite to hang out.

I guess long story short, I want to know if I should even give her the time of day. She neither said yes or no to this invite. The invite before last was a "sadly we can't do it this week because I'm working" Which seems like a soft interest. I made sure to include in the most recent invite "when you have free time let me know" Because that was we communicate a day that works for her on her day off. Yet still she dodged.

TLDR: She is neither accepting or denying my invitation to hang out. But is still seemingly showing interest in other ways and may be genuinely busy. Am i wasting my time?


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