women who masturbate, does your partner know about it and how open is your relationship in talking about masturbation?
December 12, 2025
women who masturbate, does your partner know about it and how open is your relationship in talking about masturbation?
36 comments
Yes, of course. He does as well. We are very open when it comes to talking about it.
Of course he does , we talk about absolutely everything.
Nothing is off limits which is the way it should be
It’s how I distract him from what he’s supposed to be doing lol
I am a woman who masturbates. I do not have a partner.
Very open, we have a healthy sex life and we both have private time to masturbate. I will just say that I am going in the other room and he knows I want some alone time. He is retired so has the house to himself so not sure of when he does it unless I get a picture.
I rarely do it, but my partner doesn’t know about it. at least I wouldn’t think so.
Currently single but yes I let them know. I like to be very open from the beginning and so far they’ve matched my freak lmao. If a guy disagreed with that for some reason that he wouldn’t be the right partner for me.
We do it together sometimes. So hot
I do it but I don’t tell my partner, idk I’m just used to doing it in my own time.
Don’t date people who don’t masturbate.
okay okay not a woman but my gf and i are long distance and at some point we just started masturbating together over the phone and it has been a HUGE +++++ in our relationship and sex lives
Yeah, he knows. It’s very normal, lol.
We’re very open about it. I usually message him and tell him after lol
We both do it but no porn
Yes when iv been in relationships its just a normal thing to do no matter what sex you are so should be open from the start, if masturbating infront of eachother tho always leads to sex so id purposely do it for that reason and maybe if I havnt had it for a while id do it alone or if hes not in and im horny but would never hide the fact I did it, I just see it as a natural human thing to do we deserve pleasure and if we can give it to ourself why wouldnt we.
It’s usually a god way to get ready for sex with him…..
Yes, and very open. We do it in front of each other, send each other pics and videos of ourselves doing it, do it together, etc. I’ve never had a relationship where it was hidden and can’t imagine that.
This sounds like a question a guy would ask who wants to masturbate to your answers.
My friends know about it
It’s not a secret and it’s something I discuss openly in a healthy and informative way
Yes, sometimes he even watches or joins 😅
Absolutely! We both have our “me time” and are better for it.
Me and my partner used to it together 🙈
He knows I do it. He doesnt like that I do it, so I dont tell him when I do.
We have been through years of therapy over this subject… its just for the best
My husband knows I do it and that I prefer lesbian porn. He doesn’t care lol
But I don’t Always give a headsup when I’m going to do it
My husband buys my toys .. I haven’t bought myself a toy in a long time.. I think it’s so I will leave him alone 😂 It’s something we discuss often and we are both very supportive of each other.
An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away 😈
It’s not something we talk about. But it’s not something I’m actively keeping a secret.
We both do and know about it. Usually if the other isn’t around. Dont have a “notify” situation going on but we are open about it.
Yes, and very open. I wouldn’t have married someone who I didn’t feel able to openly discuss sexual matters with.
Yes and very open. We masturbate together both in person and over the phone when we can’t be together. It’s a lot of fun!
Partner and I recently both got embarrassed when we were “caught” (separate occasions). Not because the other made us feel that way but probably because of societal norms and feelings of shame related to it while growing up. We both acted weird at first but then laughed about it later because it’s nothing to be embarrassed about – it was just our initial reactions. Now I just really want to “catch” him again and/or be “caught” and have it turn from a solo to a duo sesh 😏
I don’t feel like I can be as open about it with my spouse. I don’t know if it’s fear of being vulnerable or him finding out that I may have a problem with masturbating to often.
My partner knew and did not like that I did it. He didn’t want me to do it and tried to say I couldn’t. We’re now separated and I still partake in my personal satisfaction.
He orders me to do it. And I love it.
Been in a relationship for 10 years and when one of us wants sex we basically just start masturbating and that lets the other one know to either join in or GTFO hahaha 😂
We don’t really talk about it, but I sometimes pull out my vibe when we are getting busy, and it’s always conveniently charged.
I was married to a man who asked me NOT to masterbate; that if I wanted release, all I had to do was ask him. Sometimes, you just want to rub one out and I don’t see the harm in that. It’s quite literally self-love. He was controlling in other ways too. We’re no longer married.
36 comments
Yes, of course. He does as well. We are very open when it comes to talking about it.
Of course he does , we talk about absolutely everything.
Nothing is off limits which is the way it should be
It’s how I distract him from what he’s supposed to be doing lol
I am a woman who masturbates. I do not have a partner.
Very open, we have a healthy sex life and we both have private time to masturbate. I will just say that I am going in the other room and he knows I want some alone time. He is retired so has the house to himself so not sure of when he does it unless I get a picture.
I rarely do it, but my partner doesn’t know about it. at least I wouldn’t think so.
Currently single but yes I let them know. I like to be very open from the beginning and so far they’ve matched my freak lmao. If a guy disagreed with that for some reason that he wouldn’t be the right partner for me.
We do it together sometimes. So hot
I do it but I don’t tell my partner, idk I’m just used to doing it in my own time.
Don’t date people who don’t masturbate.
okay okay not a woman but my gf and i are long distance and at some point we just started masturbating together over the phone and it has been a HUGE +++++ in our relationship and sex lives
Yeah, he knows. It’s very normal, lol.
We’re very open about it. I usually message him and tell him after lol
We both do it but no porn
Yes when iv been in relationships its just a normal thing to do no matter what sex you are so should be open from the start, if masturbating infront of eachother tho always leads to sex so id purposely do it for that reason and maybe if I havnt had it for a while id do it alone or if hes not in and im horny but would never hide the fact I did it, I just see it as a natural human thing to do we deserve pleasure and if we can give it to ourself why wouldnt we.
It’s usually a god way to get ready for sex with him…..
Yes, and very open. We do it in front of each other, send each other pics and videos of ourselves doing it, do it together, etc. I’ve never had a relationship where it was hidden and can’t imagine that.
This sounds like a question a guy would ask who wants to masturbate to your answers.
My friends know about it
It’s not a secret and it’s something I discuss openly in a healthy and informative way
Yes, sometimes he even watches or joins 😅
Absolutely! We both have our “me time” and are better for it.
Me and my partner used to it together 🙈
He knows I do it. He doesnt like that I do it, so I dont tell him when I do.
We have been through years of therapy over this subject… its just for the best
My husband knows I do it and that I prefer lesbian porn. He doesn’t care lol
But I don’t Always give a headsup when I’m going to do it
My husband buys my toys .. I haven’t bought myself a toy in a long time.. I think it’s so I will leave him alone 😂 It’s something we discuss often and we are both very supportive of each other.
An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away 😈
It’s not something we talk about. But it’s not something I’m actively keeping a secret.
We both do and know about it. Usually if the other isn’t around. Dont have a “notify” situation going on but we are open about it.
Yes, and very open. I wouldn’t have married someone who I didn’t feel able to openly discuss sexual matters with.
Yes and very open. We masturbate together both in person and over the phone when we can’t be together. It’s a lot of fun!
Partner and I recently both got embarrassed when we were “caught” (separate occasions). Not because the other made us feel that way but probably because of societal norms and feelings of shame related to it while growing up. We both acted weird at first but then laughed about it later because it’s nothing to be embarrassed about – it was just our initial reactions. Now I just really want to “catch” him again and/or be “caught” and have it turn from a solo to a duo sesh 😏
I don’t feel like I can be as open about it with my spouse. I don’t know if it’s fear of being vulnerable or him finding out that I may have a problem with masturbating to often.
My partner knew and did not like that I did it. He didn’t want me to do it and tried to say I couldn’t. We’re now separated and I still partake in my personal satisfaction.
He orders me to do it. And I love it.
Been in a relationship for 10 years and when one of us wants sex we basically just start masturbating and that lets the other one know to either join in or GTFO hahaha 😂
We don’t really talk about it, but I sometimes pull out my vibe when we are getting busy, and it’s always conveniently charged.
I was married to a man who asked me NOT to masterbate; that if I wanted release, all I had to do was ask him. Sometimes, you just want to rub one out and I don’t see the harm in that. It’s quite literally self-love. He was controlling in other ways too. We’re no longer married.