My partner (F27) and I (M27) are in a 2 years relationship, and it is hard for me to know what boundaries to set according to my personal space.
We have some fears in our relationship that we've already talked about together, and I'd like to talk to a friend about it. Should I tell my partner that I confided in someone? Should I share what I talked about and what my friend said? Or is it normal to keep that to myself and not mention it? What if she innocently asks what my friend and I talked about?
TLDR: Should your partner be able to know everything you do/say?
Thank you for your answers.