So my cousin made me the godmother of her child last year. Today, I saw them at church and my cousin told her baby (15M) to go with me. I carried her to the back with the other children and my other cousin, who is my goddaughter’s great aunt came and took her from me and never gave her back. I honestly feel a type of way and that a boundary was crossed. This is not the first time she has done this to me. It happens almost every Sunday. I wonder if I am wrong for feeling a certain way? Should I address this with the mother first or leave it alone?
TL;DR
Family ignores the godmothers role and treat it as secondary.