So me (F27) and my co worker (M27) started flirting a lot over the past year. Things never progressed past outside of work though no dates or anything.
I learned that he was living with his ex girlfriend. He told me he wasn’t with her thought, but they were stuck in a lease and that’s why. I decided to wait it out and later he moved out and into his mom’s house to apparently help out with his little his little brother. We talked more about our feelings and he told me that he wasn’t ready for a relationship?
Over the last week or so he stopped showing up to work, I asked a co-worker and was told that he quit and got a new job. He never told me about it and I haven’t heard from him since.
Did he ever really like me? Why quit and not tell me anything?
TL;DR: Flirted with coworker for months , he had excuses for not progressing (stuck in a lease with ex, not ready for relationship), then he quits job without telling me and ghosts.