Hello, so me and my gf have been together for 3 and a half years and in the beginning our sex life was pretty regular and good. But this year we’ve only done anything like touching and sex 5 times which has led to countless arguments about it. The times that we have had sex all my gf has done is lay there face down in the pillow not doing anything. I’ve tried communicating that I would like to be more sexually active with her and she always tells me she doesn’t want to or she’s not in the mood and blames it on low labido. I’ve told her that I would like to just do things that don’t involve sex like a hand job or blow job or something to her. But she says no because she doesn’t want to which is perfectly okay that she didn’t want to. In the first 2 years we were constantly doing those things and she was enjoying it. I know I might sound like a douche but the only reason this is a problem to me is I don’t feel desired or wanted by her anymore. I feel like se isn’t attracted to me anymore and I don’t know what to do because everytime I mention it she just gets angry at me and tells me that she promises she is attracted to me and does want me. But she isn’t exactly showing me ya know. Also she had PCOS and ediometriosis which can make sex painful for her which is why I don’t mind if we don’t have sex but would just like to do something sexual. Don’t get me wrong I love her very much for a million different reasons it’s just a positive sex life is important to me as well. Like we barely kiss and if we do it’s just a pec on the lips. Sorry I just keep going on now but I’m gonna end it there. Any advice helps