I mean, I physically know how. I know the most common ways people meet someone. I know it just takes going out and meeting people, but I’m not sure how to do that. I also know I shouldn’t force being in a relationship for the sake of it.
I’m 24 year old male, and I’m a very introverted person. I love being alone and chilling at home. I don’t drink, smoke, don’t go to bars, don’t go to parties, and I love it. I also don’t have many friends and they definitely don’t have anyone to introduce me to. I will also never use online dating apps. I don’t mean to sound like an ass, but I think I’m a very attractive person. I think I look really good, I always take care of myself, I have good hygiene, and I dress nice as well. I’m also pretty tall so that should help theoretically lol. I also think I’m more emotionally mature than most people.
I also love what I do as a career. I love my life in general. At the same time, I haven’t been in a relationship in 5 years. I haven’t done anything with a girl in 5 years. I haven’t seen an opportunity either. When I think of how I should meet people, I’m really not sure what to do. I’m not much of a socializer. I’m not really a fan of approaching random women in public and asking for their number. And as far as clubs go, like clubs where people share common interests, that definitely feels like something I’d be forcing myself to do. Like I said before, bars and dating apps are off the table, and I don’t have anyone to introduce me to someone. I just want to find someone that’s also introverted and we can be introverted together lol. But I’m not sure how exactly to “meet people”.
If anyone else can relate to this but actually is in a relationship, I’d love to hear how you found your partner. Also, I can tell you more about myself if you want to know so you can kinda gauge where I could find people like me.