My boyfriend (M16) and I (F16) have been dating a bit but I’m starting to get bothered about something.
Almost every time we hang out he asks be to go down on him and I do, and I like making him happy but I wish I got it in return more. He’s never done anything long enough for me to feel it, he’s out his hands down my pants and tried for like 5 minutes but never like fully taken them off and prioritized me fully. I think most of the issue is that we’re 16 and he’s a boy and it seems like they’re all way more focused on them selves. Is this worth bringing up? It’d be more of a hassle for him to go down on me yk? I don’t want him to think it’s gross but I also don’t want our relationship to turn into a one sided thing and also for it to be expected that I give him a bj every time I see him??
Help me gather my thoughts am I just overthinking it?