Partner and I want sex at different times. She works hospital hours (inconsistent hours, night shifts, weekends) and I work 9-5 monday to friday.
She is horny almost all the time and I am mostly horny during the morning and afternoon.
Typically the only time we’re both available to have sex is at night but that is when my libido is at its complete lowest so either I force myself to have sex which is not enjoyable or we don’t have sex.
This has caused both of us to be unsatisfied with our sex life due to either no having as much sex as we’d like (1-2 times a week) or not having good quality sex.
Any couples that have dealt with this or tips?