So me (21M) and my GF (20F) have been in a relationship for 3 months and we have been seeing each other for 5. Sadly I’m the kind of guy that is anxious about relationships and can get a bit jealous but nothing over the top, I can control it. My GF goes to uni and she goes to conventions all over the country for research and educational purposes and I was always fine with that and usually they go out with the other students for drinks and nights out and again I’m super OK with that, but this time for some reason I’m super anxious last night she went out in one of these events and she was there for like 3 hours she got kinda drunk and she was constantly sending me how much she loves me and that she misses that I’m not there and I should come and cute videos of her outfit and all the lovey dovey stuff that I appreciate and she even FaceTimed me after she went to her Airbnb (we just hit 3 months and she’s very scared of the “3 month rule” so she was extra clingy on texts throughout the day anyway). And even though she’s always reassuring me that she does go to these conventions for educational purposes only plus she’s way less experienced than me both in relationships and sexual stuff and before coming to my city she was living in a very small and traditional town so I don’t think her mind can even comprehend the concept of cheating my heart believes her and loves her to the fullest but my mind just keeps playing scenarios of what if’s and all that and I want to stop it because I feel bad for not trusting her fully and she’s very anxious about these things too so I don’t want to self sabotage my relationship.
Edit: let me also add that she very rarely goes to clubs or bars she’s very introverted and I know that these events are very important to her because she takes the opportunity to sharpen her social skills through them and I don’t want to ruin it for her with my overthinking.