Hi, I’m 19F and I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months. For the past couple of days, I’ve been feeling like he’s a bit low or distant. I know I’m giving him space and not rushing him, but I’m wondering what’s the best way for me to act.
If I bring it up, it might seem like I’m monitoring his every mood or forcing communication. Maybe it’s nothing — he could just be going through a quiet, isolated moment, and honestly, I’m in a similar place too.
I want to support him without being overwhelming or clingy, but also not feel anxious myself. Would giving more space be the best approach, or is there a way to check in gently?
Has anyone navigated something like this? What’s the balance between being present and giving space?
TL;DR:
Boyfriend seems distant the past couple of days. I want to support him without being clingy or anxious. Should I give more space or check in gently? How do you balance being present and giving room?