As the title says, my wife 30F and I 30M have scheduled nights for sex. We did this because she says she’s just never in the mood. However, since starting this routine in Sept. she has called it off or made a big stink about it multiple times. It was her idea. A little back story, we have 2 kids, 8mo and 3yo. She says breast feeding is throwing off her sex drive, however, she never regained a sex drive after our 3yo was born. Maybe I’m looking too far into it, but it feels like I’m the problem. She said the other night she has never been turned on by me. Like she dislikes sex so bad she can’t even hide her irritation about it. Am I insane for expecting our agreement to be honored and want her to at least hide her displeasure a little?