Hey guys, currently in a 3 year relationship. M22 here, F21 partner. To know before hand, this is my 1st gf and I’m her 2nd Bf
Over the last year I’ve noticed especially a dip in how we are with one another in regards to physical and verbal intimacy. For us we used to be able to communicate on our desires and feelings toward one another. And some exchange of explicit things if that nature that follow. However I’ve come to see that we haven’t been able to meet one another at that manner.
I’ve always been much more open about that and say things. But I’ve noticed when I make an advancement or say some flirtatious without seeking another out of it. I get ignored and the conversation moves on. And for me I really appreciated our exchange of words, partly for assurance, of how much we want each other.
We are busy so we don’t get much time alone. So that’s kinda why I like the excitement of waiting for the next time we can share an intimate act. Though I don’t feel the same excitement from her. And instead things only happen in random moments that she feels like it in person.
I did get to speak about it to her in person.Her reasoning for the decline lies in the busyness of her life and her loss of self confidence. Which I’ve know about, and part of why I kept sharing my feeling is so she’d know I’m still very attracted to her
To add, I think a part of my concern for this is just comparing to how we were in the past. When we were more consist about talking to each other. Even sending pictures and the typical stuff what not. And from having known some of the things from her previous relationship. I feel it’s odd for us at a young age to kinda be dull and unable to share those feels. Even though we still both share that appreciation for one another. I know we can’t be the way we were when we were coming out of our teen years but I still feel like we’re acting more so like a much older couple with a bunch of kids 😅.
I’m hoping to hear if anything has experienced something similar? What happened after? Or thoughts.