Hey, I am new to reddit. I am unsure how well I can explain myself but here I go, I f23 have been working aleast 6 days 10 hour shifts and I been working because im trying to save up to move in with my M23. So normally aleast with my one day off, I would call or text my partner M23 since we are states away. He does not work but does try find jobs while freelancing but rarely works, so when I know his schedule, I understand and sometimes expect us to talk or stay in the call quiet. Well yesterday, we was playing a game bur suddenly he got quiet and it took me a while to get it out of him. He just told me he felt upset because his male friend was calling him. I tried to tell him to call him back and talk to him or go out with him but he told me he doesn't want to go out. I tried to understand him but slowly I started to feel myself be alone because whenever I did call him, and never asked me he never felt this sad or guilty, as time went by to tonight, I just told him I felt alone when he knew today al I wanted was to spend it with him, even if we didn't talk, it was enough for me. He just told me to figure it out alone because I was not taking his mental issues seriously. Now it's to this because I feel like it's hurtful he thinks I don't care about him but at the same time I know how I feel matters when I rarely ever text him when I'm working those 6 days. I do not know how to handle it or tell him without sounding like an AH or rude. Any advice? Kinda childish but It's better to ask others who know.