I a 24F, have liked this 25M on and off 4 years on and off, and I'm sure it's reciprocated, because the way he looks at me, no guy ever looked at me like that nor is he type to really engage with girls in general, as he's shy and reserved. But because we're both younger, he mentioned awhile ago he isn't ready for a relationship and a few months ago, I was informed once more that he presently just isn't readily available nor in that mindset at all by a trusted source. He's very hardworking and ambitious and is currently focused primarily on getting his career in motion and becoming financially stable. However, I know that I have to move on, which I have been in a few different relationships that didn't pan out for different reasons (none of them pertaining to him). That being said, I just wish I can absolve any feeling of him because I just desire a companionship where I am not thinking of another person, as I don't think that would be fair to the other guy at all. At the same time, I can't hold onto false hope. If anyone has experienced anything like this and has any advice, how have you moved on from a person you were emotionally invested in?