I made a post yesterday explaining the situation on a different sub, but this is a different topic. You don't have to read it, but it would give some important context about the situation I'm in.
My mom (36F) is my biological mother, but my dad (45M) is technically my step father and has been in the picture since I (14M) was three.
So, here's the thing, I don't think my mom knows what my dad did to me.
I'm planning on talking to her about but have zero idea how to approach her.
Usually when I talk about serious topics with her she gets emotional quickly and it eventually turns into a fight. She somehow finds ways to make it sound like I'm insulting her and her parenting, instead of trying to communicate.
So I need advice on how to have a discussion with her about my dad and his behavior towards me, and how I want her to handle the situation.
TL;DR I need advice about talking to my mom about my stepdad.