I’m usually a looker..and just reading all your stories, 💜 which made me learn a lot from all of your experiences.
My other half and I have been together for a year and 1/2. We’ve had some close calls of ending it, we are learning about each other, more or so recently, we both have paths of trauma, childhood and previous relationships, communication was hard at first, lots and lots of shutting down, we’re both pretty bull headed, even after a very ugly fight and words were said that was hurtful..we still choose us, never in a million years did we ever feel like we had to run the other way and cheat or talk to someone about our relationship..I told him that today and said that I appreciated he still was choosing me..that is our fuel..that is the glue that is holding us..that was my realization and wake up call even through the chaos , half of me and half of him threw a lot of good qualities away..meaning the main question, “what can I do for my spouse today”
Even small gestures went away..writing love notes or whatever.
I don’t wanna lose the good spot we’re in 💜 we’re still building our empire..but would like to know what will help to keep the progress going, he said the other day, when I let him sleep and I lost sleep, but I got up and took care of what needed to be done, and still went to work, he works more hours then I do, so he needed the rest, he said “You sacrificed your own self for me to recover. You recognized me baby girl. You seen i was struggling and didn't put your foot on my back to hold me down you gave me what I needed to get back up and provide for my family. You made me feel like your man again. And I fell in love ❤️ all over again. You reminded me I worth love.”
How do I keep that going? He looked at me that day with lust and I’m in love look..throw your best advice 💜
He’s an amazing man, and never had someone choose me and not give up 💜