So, my wife and I were shopping today, and she noticed a really pretty girl. I didn’t see her at all because I was busy being silly with our son. On the drive home, we joked about it, and my wife said, "Well, I'd forgive you if it was someone who looked like that." You know, basically a model type.
I told her I’d never cheat, but if something like that ever happened, I’d prefer it be something we did together. She actually said that could be "interesting," which surprised me since she isn’t the kinkiest person I know. We ended up discussing threesomes, and she said she’d be open to it because she knows I’d enjoy it.
But here’s the thing—I want her to be into it too. I’m only excited about things we both enjoy, not something she’s doing just for me.
Then I asked what she would want to do in that scenario, how she’d approach the other girl, or what she’d feel comfortable with. Her response caught me off guard. She said she wouldn’t want to do anything with the other girl, just that both of them would be focused on me. I asked if there would be no kisses or anything else. She said maybe some kissing and that’s it.
Now I’m wondering… is that even a thing? Are there any women who would do a threesome but only want to interact with the guy and not with the other girl at all?
I always pictured a threesome as all three people engaging together, not just two people focusing on one person. I’m trying to figure out if this is normal or if I’m overthinking it.