So I 19(F) and some guy 21(M) have been seeing each other for the last two weeks. We're thinking of making this a long term commitment. We've so far only had sex twice, the first time he didn't really get hard so we just focused on foreplay. The second time he got hard and we came to the realisation that he just doesn't fit inside me. I feel no pain no pain at all when we try to penetrate but he says I'm too small and it causes him pain when we try to insert him inside me. It's also really difficult and we haven't been able to get even the tip in… We're kinda worried this may be a long term problem. We've decided that we could probably just make peace with it and find work arounds for sexual intimacy like buying toys, using his fingers etc But first we'd like to try figuring out how to make it fit
Any advice